Confidence Magnet

So you've worked up the nerve to approach that cute girl at your job. She was so hot that it made you have second thoughts. You tried your luck and what happened? She rejected you! This is what you were avoiding in the first place. Why do you even bother? The thing is you didn't realize that the reason why she rejected you wasn't because she didn't like you...she rejected you because she has a boyfriend. A boyfriend who is very jealous and actually beats up any man who talk...

Men would have it much eaiser with women if they knew the things that women liked.  Not to kiss ass, but to become more attractive in a woman's eyes.  Women hate when men kiss their ass.  At first it comes off as flattery, but after they hear it so many times, they end up not respecting the man.  An example would be a man always agreeing with everything she says.  Even if the stuff she is saying is utter bullshit.  When a man establishes himself in...

We all want to find that magic bullet when it comes to getting women. Unfortunately it doesn't exist, but that doesn't mean talking to women has to be scary. It's all a matter of mindset, not success. For example, let's say you like a chick who is stuck up and rude. The only reason why you like her is because she's hot. Let's say she rejects you when you go talk to her. It was for the best because a woman like this may make your life miserable. She may have you jumping thro...

When you're shy you miss out on a lot of opportunities...some of which could have been going in your favor the whole time.  There could have been a job you qualified for but didn't go for, there could have been a higher position at your job that you should have asked to apply for, and there are a lot of cute chicks that could have been giving you signals that they liked you, but you didn't pay attention because you had the "she's outta my league" mentality.  I've lear...

When a man likes a woman, he'll sometimes ask his friends if she's hot or not. There's nothing wrong with a second opinion, but you shouldn't base being with someone just because everyone else thinks she's hot. When you do this, you're basing your relationships off of trophies, and we all know that trophy girlfriends and wives don't last. You may have a fear of losing your trophy to another man. When you have this fear you start to get paranoid, you start to get needy, and ...

Judging by the title you may be thinking, "What do you mean 'fearless like a baby?'  Babies are afraid of everything."  Babies do have fears, like loud noises, certain images, etc.  This is why when you have a chainsaw or lawnmower going, you'll see a small child hide behind their parent or run away crying.  I do know that babies are very curious and they will test things to see how far they can go. 

Don't let people tell you that one night stands are evil.  You may hear the terms "Hit it and quit it" and "Dogging women out", but this makes one nights stands seem like the women are the victims.  There are women out there who want to have sex with no strings attached just like men.  The women who sleep with men on the first day and expect a relationship right after are idiots and need to learn the difference between casual sex and building a relationship. ...

Men have been guilty of letting ass get in the way and cloud their judgement.  They would rather learn how to get ass from multiple women than learn how to make money and provide for themselves.  Women are fun but you still need to keep in mind that getting ass doesn't put food on the table...unless you're a porn star or a male prostitute. 

The reason why I'm posting this blog is because I was thinking back to a time when ...

The number one problem men have when they're first learning how to talk to women is they don't know what to talk about.  This lowers their confidence to the point that they can't function in a normal interaction with women who they like.  They think they always have to have something cool to say at all times.  Did you ever think that part of the conversation is listening. 

A woman's problem with men is men...

The other day I was on a forum and I saw one of the threads that read "Rejection or Regret".  Do you know how much power that phrase has behind it.  The reason why I said this because it relates to this blog.  Imagine for a moment that you want to ask a girl out or just approach a girl but you punk out.  The next girl you like...the same thing.  As time goes by you think back and you say, "Damn, I should have talked to that chick...she was hot"

Fear of the approach is the difference between a man getting some ass and a man wishing he was getting some ass.  I've been there before...fantasizing about approaching women without fear and getting good feedback.  I'm sure you're in this present situation right now or you wouldn't be reading this.  The moment you get the thought that you want to approach a chick you like you get the thought of "what if she rejects me?".  This is why in order to successfull...

Generally speaking, women have mastered the art of attracting men.  Women know that men are visual creatures so what do they do?  They perk up their breast and wear low-cut tops.  They wear short skirts to show off as much thigh as possible.  They fix their hair and make-up to drawn men towards their faces.  When a woman wants to find a man to sleep with it's effortless for her.  All she need to do is dress up and touch him and say "let's go". ...

When it comes to success, you need focus and consistency.  If you ever noticed the most successful people are the most focused. This doesn't mean being short-sighted but being like a laser that focuses it's energy until it burns through to success.  For my readers who are entrepenuers or success-minded people, let me give you an example:

You want to send traffic to your website and turn a profit for the year.  You buy e...

Success is something that we all want. When we are out of shape, we want to be fit. When we are poor, we want to be rich. If we are lonely, we want to be in the company of that special someone (or just have many options of people to choose from). Success and failure are like relatives...in order to succeed you will have failures along the way. When this happens, we have to assess the situation. We must ask ourselves, "What is it that I need to change about my approach, mentalit...

A man relying on pick up lines is like a poor person relying on winning the lottery to become rich. If you are a person who has never attracted women, then you will fall prey to this mentality. I'm in the bubble-bursting mood so I'm about to burst one now...pick up lines don't work! "'Gasp', what do you mean pick up lines don't work? I've heard a pick up artist actually give list of lines to say to hot chicks." When it comes to pick up lines, ...

Anything of value must take patience and a little work. The thing is, work doesn't necessarily mean hard work. For example, if you want to get something to eat, all you need to do is look in your fridge and make a sandwich or go to the store. Is this hard work? No, unless you are lazy or a great distance from where the food would be (I'm talking about miles not a few feet). The same thing can go for attracting women. Let's face it, women love confidence in men. Not just confide...

Here are some reasons why you would want to clear your mind:

1. If your mind is cluttered with thoughts and feelings of doubt, fear, anxiety,etc. it's really hard to build confidence.

2. When you clear your mind and relax, it puts you in a state of being "relaxed but ready". This is a state that confident people have.

3. When your breathing and heart rate is r...

Your mind is your most valuable asset. What you fill it with will determine if you have a good asset or a bad asset. Just like anything in life you will have your ups and downs, but in this article I want to show you how to stay level-headed in the bad times and enjoy the good times.

Positive thinking and affirmations are techniques used to increase a person's confidence. They simply think only of the positive and say things like "I am a ...

Dating has a lot of pressure behind it.  Men feel the pressure of impressing the woman, and the women feel the pressure of sleeping with the guy on the first date or wait it out.  Dating should be fun, not stressful.  I wanna share a simple way to make dating more enjoyable and no stress on either party.

Think of the dynamics of a date.  Usually the guy is the one asking the girl out, so he must first approach her, whi...

Whether it's dating or business, when you care a little less you succeed a little more.  This doesn't mean be careless and don't give a damn about what you do.  This means you don't add extra worry that doesn't belong.  You'll be surprised how much you can succeed when you don't care too much.  Let me give an example:

Let's say that you have a business and you are looking for customers.  ...